Why do people lie?

can sometimes cause a break and then you lose him. That’s not what you want, so wisely you shut your mouth, because you don’t want to hurt the other. Is this the best way?

No one is waiting for a liar, but you know that every person tells lies. So you and me too. We start it around our third year of life, everyone. Your parents who are not happy with something and you, as a toddler, hear the reprimanding voice of your mother and you brag about it, yes, but I didn’t do it, it’s the fault of somebody else. As a human being, you tell unnoticed, no matter how small you are, a few lies every day.

We can’t escape from it, because every day there are situations that put us in a corner. We aren’t prepared for that and then it is easy to put the blame on another, while deep in your heart you know that you yourself were the one who should have done it better.

But when you are little, you saw that it worked and you are save then, so you keep doing it, because it has effect. And before you know, it becomes a habit. A very nasty one.

So every person lies a few times a day. Another reason you lie, is that you are afraid you are not good enough. If something goes wrong, you hide behind someone else, you put the blame on it. Or you come up with something that puts you back on the map and the other doesn’t look for anything behind it.

It can get so from bad to worse and the only thing you achieve with it is that you get caught up in your own lies. Because you have to remember very well what you say to one person and to the other. This is very tiring and you will see, you fall through the basket once. Even those you don’t want to hurt. After all, you swallow everything and therefore you feel pain deep inside and it has to come out once. Then you throw everything at once for the other person. You don’t care anymore.

Telling lies for good, occasionally, and thinking carefully about it, sometimes it is better. But no human being can live in a life in which that life depends on lies. It is not a life for yourself and living together with another, will always end in disappointment.

How do you avoid getting caught up in your own lies and how do you recognize a true liar? Because now that you know that every person sometimes lies, you do it yourself. Because now say for yourself, do you really tell everyone what you would like to say? No, sometimes you wisely keep your mouth shut and maybe that is also the best in certain situations. Only if you do it too often, you will suffer from an inner conflict.

For yourself, consider where it comes from, your lying and whether you are happy with it. If not, change and go tell the truth. Dare to put your hand in your own bosom and not to blame it on someone else. You will see that it has positive effects for you. You no longer feel like a victim.

So are you unsure whether you are dealing with a liar in your life? Then call a medium or psychic.
And start telling the truth, your truth. And maybe your truth is not what another expect, that is not your problem. After all we are all diferent, think different, do different. So be your beautiful self, then you will never tell lies anymore, because you see the benefit of not doing it.