Tired of the mask that you wear.
The other rejects it and is in conflict with himself out of frustration that he or she can never do what he or she would like to do. Both get tired of this. The one, because it demands too much of itself. The other, because it is working against itself.
So it is not so strange that many walk around with a a mask and get sick of it, such as a burn out, experience depressive feelings, disgust with the word, but go on. As long as you don’t realize that you are performing a play, you don’t notice that you are blowing with all the winds around you.
In the first instance, we lay the fatigue on others, our work, because they ask and demand so much from us. With our loved ones who want us to be ready for them all day. We get angry and go to battle. Not realizing that it is precisely that anger that makes us even more tired. That the battle also makes us more tired.
Because everything is accompanied by negative emotions and they suck us empty. Totally upset and frustrated, no longer knowing how to solve this ourselves, we seek help and end up on a spiritual helpline. We want to know when we can get back to work as quickly as possible. Why our relationship does not run as you envisage. Why life is so tiring. We want to know our future, as it will stay as bad as it is now, or better times will come.
The medium shows you that you yourself are the one who forgets herself and doesn’t dare to set limits. That you can ask if your future will look better, yes, of course, only if you intend to change.
You understand the message of the medium very well, and you be greatful you have a very good conversation. You understand you have to change yourself.
Understanding is one thing, but how do you apply it? How do you say No to someone you have always said Yes to? You should dare and be able to do that. Hereby too the medium assists you with advice and action. It gives you a boost, the chat and so much guts and courage that nothing will stop you from saying no, if you feel no. You are connected to your compass and the medium has made you aware of this. Play away with that stage, here I am and I can be there! I let go of the mask that makes me so very tired.
You started chatting for a future forecast and you got so much more, it was well worth the money. Now the tiredness disappears. Now you see that when you play, and wearing a mask, you can get so tired of it. Never again for you, thankfully you start another chat with your medium, to thank her for the enormous support she has offered you.
Nobody can manage to keep walking around with a mask. There will come a time when your body says to you, I no longer work for you. If you start listening to me and hear when I am tired, then I will be there for you again, because then you will be there for me in the right way also.
Daring to choose the change for yourself and walking around without a mask will not go overnight. You will always fall back in old patterns. But, once started, there is actually no way back. you see the enormous benefits of it, that it makes you less stressed, that people treat you with more respect. What a pity that I haven’t known this before!