Let go in love

The beauty of all this is that the other person takes you seriously in love. That you take each other seriously in love and if it can happen that both decide to give each other no more love. Then nothing is taken away from you, then you let go in love. Because in love letting go, you do that for yourself, never for another. Then you know that it is good that the love of that other person is no longer good for you.

Letting go is one of the words that people use most often. Admittedly not saying loud and using the word as such. We actually use it all day. Because you are busy all day, with your work, you finish something. When it is finished, you release it, it flows from your system. The one time it feels like a birth, the other time you don’t think about it.

The same applies in the home situation. You have cleaned out the dishwasher, you release it from your system that you still had to do this job. Now these are forms of letting go where love doesn’t come directly around the corner, although, of course, you can enjoy a completed project and have a sense of pride that the job is done.

This way you see that you are releasing all day, but not consciously. What we are often aware of is when there is love letting go. Then letting go suddenly becomes a lot more complicated. That is not surprising, because love is not something that is there, that is visible and tangible. Because what do you have to let go?

Love is a feeling and when love has to be released, through a loss, as with someone who has died, a divorce, then the release comes in heavy water. Because then we would rather not let go. Because then we think we let go of love and we don’t want that. However, was there actually to let go, because love is not visible. We then want advice, answers and for that reason we start calling and chatting with spiritual mediums. A very good choice.

Look at the words rather not, rather, there is also sweet in it. We never want to let go of love, because without love we are helpless, unreasonable, invalidated. Releasing love is always about someone else’s love. We think that love has been taken from us, that love can’t be taken from us, because that hurts, it causes sadness and we lose ourselves. That is what we think and deal with love.

What we totally ignore in situations where we no longer get the love of another, is the love for ourselves. Nobody realizes that if love disappears from your life, that there is still a love, namely that for and of yourself. No, we only look at the love taken away. And in fact, as soon as that love falls away, we are deprived of it, we will also deprive ourselves of the love for ourselves. And we do that ourselves. While we should do the opposite. A good medium will tell you this also.

We should give more love to ourselves if someone else doesn’t give it to us anymore. Because love is not taken away from us, never! If you cannot let go of someone else’s love, you have never given yourself love. If you have never thought about giving love to yourself, that is a right, you owe it. Hence letting go in love. Because then you guard the love for yourself. How you do that, can a medium tells you.

You can only let go in love if you are aware of the love for yourself. Then you also understand that love will never hurt, because you are aware that the love of another is there as long as it is there. You are aware that the love of another person from one day to the next might not be there, for whatever reason. And as long as the love of the other is there, you are aware that that love may be there, just as long as you agree and not the other way around